day 18 - a song that you wish you heard on the radio

This is not so much a song but a simple bit of advice put to music. I think it should be played everyday, on every radio show, right at the start. There are a lot of people that could do with sitting and listening to it when they feel that times are hard or the rat race is all too much.
I wish Baz Lurhmann had written a whole album of advice. Wise words indeed.

day 17 - a song that you hear often on the radio

As far as radio goes I am still a Radio 1 listener, and not ready for the pipe and slippers of radio just yet. I am not trying to stay "hip & trendy", (use of that phrase alone proves my point), but I still enjoy new music.
I am a Chris Moyles fan on the way to work, as it's fun and not too heavy and quite funny at times which is light enough for the mornings.
I am usually in the office the rest of the time, but if out on site visits I don't mind Ferne Cotton or Greg James, but usually prefer Radio 5 live. I listen a lot in the kitchen or on the internet to Zane Lowe early evening. Bit of Radio 2 and 4 now and again and that's about it. Commercial radio is far too repetitive and too many adverts interrupting for too long so I avoid it.
This track has been on a lot lately and it's from what is already an absolute classic album.

day 16 - a song that you used to love but now hate

As I have said before, hate is a very strong word so I will ignore it again!
In my experience with regard to music, once I like something I like it, and it's rare for me to go off it, let alone "hate it". So I suppose I am going to settle for something I liked listening too and for whatever reason I can't any longer.
So..........this track seemed perfect to have played at my wedding and lyrically it was from me to her, and it was a favourite then, and I made sure it was played as we left the ceremony for our life together as man and wife, so that "Sail away with me, I put my heart in your hands and what will be will be" would actually mean something.............I can no longer listen to it for the emotional attachment and what it represents rather than musical reasons.
The video is even more apt as it is Bournemouth coast, where I live now, and where we moved for a fresh start.......Great track, shame about the marriage!

day 15 - a song that describes you

Only one that springs straight to mind. A childhood hero says it perfectly.

day 14 - a song that no one would expect you to love

This is an interesting one. Mainly because I don't know what my friends and family know what I like musically really, and so wouldn't know what to expect. However, I assume they can see that I am not a really big Country and Western fan, or Operatic classics, or a Industrial thrash metal enthusiast.
So, this one may raise a couple of eyebrows, but probably not a great shock
I found it whilst setting youtube on random one evening, and thought the track was great, energetic, and a little mad, and that the title was brilliant too.

day 13 - a song that is a guilty pleasure

Apparently a guilty pleasure is something one enjoys and considers pleasurable despite feeling guilt for enjoying it. The "guilt" involved is sometimes simply fear of others discovering one's lowbrow or otherwise embarrassing tastes in fashion, music, or even junk food.

This describes my choice well, as even though it is a brilliant pop song with a great hook, the female vocalist is far too young, and the music far too young, and the message one I learned a long time ago too. But it's just a great fun track..............and I bought it on itunes the first day I heard it some months before it came out. I'm such a trendsetter........NOT!

Cinderella strides, and the wide awake club.

I have, at last, managed to find some school trousers that fit Callum in waist AND leg. I am so happy I hugged Callum who just looked bemused and muttered something about "mad".
However, this is no "small potatoes" as far as I am concerned. This is quite simply the best news this year so far!
Only once have I managed to find school trousers that were a perfect fit in all the time he has been at at school. As he is on the larger side for his age, I can find them to fit the waist, but then they are too long in the leg by about 6 inches..............not good, as he looks like he is wearing cast downs from an older but circus dwelling brother. If I get the right leg, the waist is too small and his torso looks like a barrage balloon tied at the middle.

I have searched specialist shops, but they want silly money to make him some to fit. We have seen the insides of the fitting rooms of Sainsburys, Tesco, Asda and M&S, all to no avail and much wailing and tantrums.........me, not Callum.
I have joined, and ordered from, several, and I mean several, mail order books and opened accounts and returned numerous packages. Purely by accident I noticed an ad for "generous fit" trousers for school children that are not waifs but not obese. So, I ordered for a 10 year old and crossed my fingers.
An email arrived saying they were out of stock, but the website didn't say so, and I tore out what little hair I have left, (I have so little I can name each hair individually), and thought that was it. Then, a strange man rang the bell today and thrust a package in my face grunting, "Sign!" I signed, and opened the package, and saw a note that advised me that stock was now full and here was my order, (3 months later), as more stock had arrived. Apparently I had not ticked a box which meant that when new stock was available it would be sent.
I asked Callum to try them on, and he protested "not again dad".........it was a Cinderella type moment as I shouted, making Callum jump in the process, "THEY FIT.................THEY ONLY FUCKING FIIIITTT"
I then had to swiftly apologise to Callum who scolded me!! How sad that I was so overjoyed that I swore?

It's that I have felt so guilty in sending my little man to school knowing that he was uncomfortable either physically or mentally, or guilty that I have over fed him................ but God these new strides are abso-fuckin-lutely spot-fuckin-on. I whooped and hugged him.............hahahahahahaha.
Is my life so sad that this is the best I can do, or is it normal behaviour? Who cares, the trousers fit!!!!!

Back to Earth now.
I missed blogging on days 13 and 14 of the 30 days music challenge, and will catch up three days tomorrow, or maybe one tonight as Callum has had a 24/36 hour bug. He was violently sick 20 minutes before leaving school yesterday, and again after dinner, which was beans on toast as I was mindful of projectile vomiting if his dinner was too complicated the last time he had an upset tummy. ("Not tummy dad, I am older now, so it's stomach").
He slept in my bed so I could keep an eye as he had a temp, and so Calpol and Neurofen administered as well as copious amounts of filtered cold water. We retired at 8pm last night as he wanted to go to bed but not alone. Bless him as he told me that he was scared being sick without me around. This was the first time he'd been sick anywhere else but home with me to comfort him. The school reported hearing him in the toilets crying and calling for his dad.
I watched TV until 11.30pm while he slept, and then put the bedside lamp out. The little sod seemed to rally at about midnight, just as I was falling asleep, as he woke me to say he felt better. He woke me again at 00.38 to say he was sweaty. He woke me at 01.08 to advise me that I was snoring and could I stop it? He woke me at 01.19 "Dad! Stop snoring please" 01.48 "Dad I want a drink" 03.35 "Dad....STOP snoring it woke me up". 04.30 Dad are you okay you're not snoring. I politely, although he said not, asked that he go to his own room, as I was entitled to snore in my own bed thank you very much. 04.59 "You're not looking after me much talking to me like that. But it doesn't matter, (kisses me on the head), because I am feeling much better now. Finally at 06.10 "Dad.........I love you. Do I have to go to school today, because it is light now" 06.30 Alarm goes off 

................"Dad I think I should stay home so I don't spread it".
"Why are you getting up?" Because I have to start work soon..............

Callum has been sick again, but seems better now. I am shattered.................but the trousers bloody well fit.

day 12 - a song from a band you hate

As it is said..........."hate is a very strong word" and so in this instance I would agree. There isn't a band that I hate, or for that matter any particular music either. So for today's purpose I think I will stick with dislike.
God there could be so many tracks like this I could post............Boyzone came a close second, but the fact that Ronan Keating has actually got talent saved them! This stuff is banal, dull, and not at all manly!! It makes my ears and teeth hurt and for me could replace water-boarding as a means of prolonged torture all day long.

Inspiration amongst the madness.

I have to start with one of the most inspirational things I have ever seen in team Hoyt.
http://www.teamhoyt.com/  I don't think there is any need for an explanation. I cry every time I see it. It's not that it is not impossible or unbelievable because it isn't.
It is incredible because of that level of commitment and love, and that a lot of parents find it unusual, whereas to me it should be the sort of thing ANY parent would willingly do for their precious children. I sometimes wonder why this planet does not value its most precious "commodity" enough, but will kill for oil or gold!

Lately I find myself becoming more politicised, and "involved" in what is happening around me, whether it is local issues related to where I live or where I work, or national issues in politics or simple fair play, or international issues like my recent interest in 9/11.
Perhaps it is an age thing? Perhaps it is being a parent? I have always enjoyed political debate more and more as I have aged an enjoy a good shout at the goons on "Question Time" on a Thursday night, and a reflection on the week watching "This Week" afterwards.

The other night I watched the second part of a programme for Comic Relief, in tears, as Lenny Henry and three other "celebs" lived and worked in the slums of Kibera in Nairobi, Kenya. Such dignity from the inhabitants on the same day that news reported that the worlds richest man had increased his wealth by 38% to £75 billion. That's 75,000,000,000.
It's not the worlds richests' fault of course, but there is an obscenity of that amount of wealth whilst more than one million people are crammed into an area measuring no more than 1.5 square miles, with no sanitation, power or running water. Part one is here http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b00z6dnn 
Part two is here http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b00zfxm0/Comic_Relief_2011_Famous_Rich_and_in_the_Slums_Part_2/
It seems beyond the will of major governments to eliminate such poverty such inhumanity, even though they COULD eliminate it within a few years, but they don't, and knowing the reasons why they don't is the tragic and angering thing for me.

Recently, there was the huge earthquake and tsunami has hit Japan and it may be one of the biggest disasters to hit the world for a while, but natural disasters seem to be more prevalent these days...........hmmmm the Bible says that these things are a sign of the beginning of the end of days.

I have watched and listened too as Chris Moyles and Dave Vitty completed the longest radio show at 52 hours non stop and raised £2.6m, and Callum and I watched Comic Relief as I think he needs to see something that important for his understanding of such things going on in his world, and also to teach him some value, some humility, some gratefulness and respect for what he has, as well as compassion and understanding of what others do not have.
Incredibly moving scenes, incredibly funny people and incredibly great fund-raising.

Now the spectre of war is with us again. Once again our government sees fit to interfere with another countries affairs. Yes Gaddafi is a monster, but so is Mugabe. Yes its awful that Libyan civilians are killed by their own people, but it was awful in Rwanda. What the backbone-less UN decided is plain wrong. A no-fly zone was never going to achieve anything and was never as simple as stopping the Libyan air force.
The US and UK and France et al know damned well that the only way to end it will be to get rid of Gaddafi and the only way to do that will be with troops on the ground. If Gaddafi is not removed then all those countries arranged against him will be targets for him and his followers across the world. This is the man that arranged Lockerbie, and was arming and funding the IRA.......

Give me team Hoyt over team Cameron any day. But in the end it is all so insignificant as Professor Brian Cox tells us on a Sunday night.

day 11 - a song from your favorite band

Another difficult  track to pin down really. I don't really have an absolute favourite band, more like a favourite band "at the moment". Never been one for liking a band or artist and then religiously following and loving everything they do. I am more likely to hear something, and if I like it buy the album and attach it to a particular time or place, event or emotion. Perhaps that's the way everyone does it? I just never wanted to be blinded to everything else by just one particular band or artist or genre.

"At the moment" I am into Kings Of Leon, Plan B, and Chase and Status. A favourite band is Coldplay over the last few years, but back in the day it was Genesis or Queen or Pink Floyd and then Numan and all the New Romantic stuff, and then Oasis and Blur and then Trance and House..............
I guess I should go for something influential as opposed to a single emotional response, but anything really influential upon me in any way have been individual artists.
But I am going to stretch the point a little and go for Tubeway Army as although by the time real fame hit home the band reverted and always were in reality, Gary Numan. But.............on the album cover it says Tubeway Army, and I love this track to death.

day 10 - a song that makes you fall asleep

I can't really say that any piece of music has made me fall asleep, although I have fallen asleep whilst various music has been on, but never out of boredom.

I do love a plethora of chill-out music, or classical tracks or instrumentals.
This part of the 30 days gives me an opportunity to write about something I am very passionate about.
The one album that is almost sleep inducing that I own is Apollo: Atmospheres and Soundtracks by Brian Eno. It was written, produced, and performed by Brian Eno, his brother Roger and Daniel Lanois. Music from the album appeared in the films 28 Days Later, Traffic and Trainspotting, and two of the songs from the album, "Silver Morning" and "Deep Blue Day", were issued as a 7" single. The latter is a track I adore and had at my wedding.
This album is a real favourite in all the world, as are the films they were for, as the "space race" enthralled me as a child and I knew all there was to know about space from 1967 to 1975, especially the Apollo programme, which included all the moon landings. I had scale models that were used on the TV programmes, simulating what was to come, as my dad knew the guy that hand made them, (no Airfix in those days).

This music was originally recorded in 1983 for a feature length documentary movie called "Apollo" later retitled For All Mankind, directed by Al Reinert. The original version of the film had no narration, and simply featured 35mm footage of the Apollo moon missions collected together roughly chronologically, and set to Eno's music as it appears on the CD. Very ethereal and eerie, like the emptiness of space.
Although the film had some limited theatrical runs at so-called "art house" movie theatres in some cities, audience response was lukewarm. The film-makers still felt the film could do better if it reached a wider audience, and so they re-edited the film, added narration, re-structured the music, and re-titled the film in the process. Various edits of the film were shown to test audiences for further refining. As all this was going on, the film’s release was delayed until 1989. By that time several tracks on the album were omitted from the soundtrack and replaced by other pieces by Eno and other artists.
Eno relates that when he watched the Apollo 11 landing in 1969 he felt that the strangeness of that event was compromised by the low quality of the television transmission and an excess of journalistic discussion, and that he wished to avoid the melodramatic and up-tempo way it was presented. That philosophy dominated when For All Mankind ("Apollo") was originally released as a non-narrative collection of NASA stock footage from the Apollo programme. The non-narrative version of the film with the Eno soundtrack was released on VHS video in 1990 by the National Geographic Society.
My favourite and I think most relaxing track perfectly encapsulates the Americans or "Cowboys" in space and mixes synths and country and western in an inspired ambient piece.
Country music, which Eno listened to as a child on American armed forces radio, was used to "give the impression of weightless space"
Many of the tracks on the album were recorded with soft "attacks" of each note, then played backwards, with multiple heavy echoes and reverb added in both directions to merge the notes into one long flowing sound with each note greatly overlapping each adjacent note, producing the "floating" effects.
Well, I love that music anyway what I find impressive about it is that it’s very concerned with space in a funny way. Its sound is the sound of a mythical space, the mythical American frontier space that doesn’t really exist anymore. That’s why on Apollo I thought it very appropriate, because it’s very much like "space music" it has all the connotations of pioneering, of the American myth and of the brave individual.

See what you think.................

day 09 - a song that you can dance to

There are just so many and I have already listed "Insomnia"...........what to go for?
I have danced round the handbags with the ladies, on my own in my home, just in that sort of mood, and on a podium off my face..............

This track used to get me up on the dance floor no matter what my state and still gets me today as it's a mix of romance in the lyrics, with some funky house and trance thrown in. Perfect...........let's boogie!!!

day 08 - a song that you know all the words to

There are so very many that fit this category, so I have tried to pick out one that has a story.
I remember my mum singing this one a lot and so I probably learned the words early, and then back in the 80's I did an up to date version with a friend called Clyde Ward, (brilliant musician and producer now in Cyprus and working with many famous artists, including Right Said Fred), in his studio, in the hope a German record company might be interested. We did an 80's version a little like Billy Idol and so I had to learn it word perfect and did quite a few takes.

day 07 - a song that reminds you of a certain event

I am cheating a little here, for two events are brought to mind any-time I hear a Queen song. One is when I first met a gifted musician that became a lifelong friend, and where I met other good friends, and the other event is Live Aid.

Firstly, I remember hearing Queen being played brilliantly and the sound of the piano drifting from a music room at school. It was late 1975, and I had just joined the schools 2nd year after moving home so I was short on friends and a bit lost after moving from a boys grammar school to a mixed comprehensive.

Playing the piano in that room was a boy who became my best mate. There were also friends of this musical genius, who also became my friends for the life of my secondary education and teenage years and I still count one as a good friend now, but became disconnected from the other two.

Matt Jessup is quite simply one of the most talented musicians I have EVER seen, and he was that pianist. He could play Queen or Genesis or Floyd at will along with many other tunes anyone would care to request. He was usually surrounded by entertained masses in the tiny music room at most breaks or lunchtimes, so there is my first "event" that any Queen tune reminds me of.
Alan Chun is the other thoroughly good friend, decent human being, and an early martial arts teacher, early "life coach" and worldly wise friend, albeit that I didn't know it at the time, of mine. Glen and Rod completed the quintet that was a happy quartet before I intruded, but they all welcomed me into the fold, after the usual teething and testing of course.

The second "event" that any Queen tune reminds me of is simply the day Queen ruled the musical world in my opinion............Live Aid at Wembley Stadium 13 July 1985.

30 Day song challenge day 06 - a song that reminds you of somewhere

It has to be a dance track, that reminds me of The Manor
Most Saturdays between 1995 and 1999..........sometimes 9pm til 6am then an after-party...........The Manor Nightclub, Hurn Road, Matchams Near Bournemouth.    
The Manor was an elegant converted mansion that provided one of the UK's most exciting and unique nightspots. It was for PROPER clubbers, dedicated clubbers into their dance music, three superb rooms never to be forgotten and quite simply THE best club I have ever been to anywhere on this planet. The vibe, the music, the people, the drugs, the lot..............One of those moments........on a podium, off my face, star spangled banging........everyone, but everyone, facing the DJ all moving as one, the roof came off, the club went off..........
"I can't get no sleep................"

Day 05 - a song that reminds you of someone

Well this one is fairly easy.
Back last year I agreed to help my dad out with some of his work as he had a period of bad health.
He still runs a private detective agency, and years back we, and my brother worked together in the family business until the recession of the early nineties did for us. But we were all private dicks together!!

Anyway, one of the jobs dad asked me to do was serve some legal process, (documents), on a bloke in Swindon. So, I took Callum with me for the trip, and on the way up he asked to listen to some music and chose the Muse album "The Resistance", and we listened to it all the way there and back, and we had a really good day, a good lunch and a good laugh. Bonding at its best.

One track in particular seemed to resonate with Callum and I at the same time. It surprised me that Callum liked it as it is quite classical. When it came on he became distant and quiet, and he was looking away out of the window, and when I asked him if he was ok he looked back at me, and I saw he was in tears. I asked if he was ok, and he said "Yes", but that the words reminded him of his mum and main family, (me and his mum and sister and dog that we had to let go that he adored).
The only way to explain he said was to listen again and I had to pay attention to the lyrics. So, we listened again and both of us were in tears second time around.
It says a lot of how he feels and always will he says, and I think it says a lot for people in situations that they wish they could change or start over, which is what Callum wishes he could do, and have a mum again and a family. Bless his little heart. The lyrics don't fail to send me to tears when I think of the pain he must feel at times to equate them to his life. Brave and clever boy
The whole album reminds me of that day, and my boy, but this song in particular will be forever him, and we agreed to have it at my funeral, as he says it will remind him of that day together.

For Callum x

MUSE - Exogenesis Symphony - Part III (Redemption)

I posted two versions, one with the lyrics.      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2qcxlQVlncE

Sunscreen

If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience…

• Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Oh never mind......... you will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded, but trust me, in 20 years time you’ll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can’t grasp now how much possibility lay before you, and how fabulous you really looked. 
• You’re not as fat as you imagine. 

• Don’t worry about the future, or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blind-side you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.

• Do one thing everyday that scares you. 

• Sing

• Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts, don’t put up with people who are reckless with yours. 
• Floss 

• Don’t waste your time on jealousy; sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind…the race is long, and in the end, it’s only with yourself.

• Remember the compliments you receive, forget the insults; if you succeed in doing this, tell me how. 
• Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements. 
• Stretch 

• Don’t feel guilty if you don’t know what you want to do with your life…the most interesting people I know didn’t know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives, some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still don’t. 

• Get plenty of calcium. 
• Be kind to your knees, you’ll miss them when they’re gone. 

• Maybe you’ll marry, maybe you won’t, maybe you’ll have children,maybe you won’t, maybe you’ll divorce at 40, maybe you’ll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary…what ever you do, don’t congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself either – your choices are half chance, so are everybody else's. 

• Enjoy your body,use it every way you can…don’t be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, it’s the greatest instrument you’ll ever own. 
• Dance…even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room.
• Read the directions, even if you don’t follow them. 
• Do NOT read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly.

• Get to know your parents, you never know when they’ll be gone for good. 
• Be nice to your siblings; they are the best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future. 

• Understand that friends come and go, but for the precious few you should hold on.
• Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.
• Live in a big city once, but leave before it makes you hard; live in the country once, but leave before it makes you soft.
• Travel.

• Accept certain inalienable truths, prices will rise, politicians will philander, you too will get old, and when you do you’ll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders.
• Respect your elders.
• Don’t expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you have a wealthy spouse; but you never know when either one might run out.
• Don’t mess too much with your hair, or by the time you're 40, it will look 85.

• Be careful whose advice you buy, but, be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it’s worth.
• But trust me on the sunscreen…

Day 4 of the 30 day song challenge - A song that makes you sad

Blimey this is a really difficult one..................So many songs that have a connection to something sad, either personally or anecdotal or global events.

But it has to be a track from Coldplays X&Y which was a huge album for me as it was out at the time my ex-wife first left me and the kids for an "alternative" life in 2005. It became the soundtrack to the beginning of the end for a marriage, and shattered the lives of two wonderful little children, and heralded five years of immense change and pain that altered things forever.
Being a huge Coldplay fan I bought the album straight away. I shall always remember driving from Winchester, where we lived then, to Bournemouth to visit good friends I hadn't seen for a while and who invited us down to relieve the agony if only for a day.

The children both fell asleep within 10 minutes and I listened uninterrupted. It amazed me that almost the entire album matched the situation for both me and my then wife. Lyrically it really hit home, and I spent almost the entire journey driving through tears. Of course there are many albums or tracks that feel like they fit the circumstances at the time, but this track and the album really did. So the whole album is now forever tinged with sadness for me and I could choose one of several tracks, but one epitomises my thoughts at that early stage, that, as when I met my ex, I thought I could help fix her problems, fix the past the present and the future, and fix her. What I didn't know or accept what I know now is that it was all beyond repair, and that although I adored her and valued our marriage the feeling from day one was never mutual, and that ultimately it was all doomed from the start, but at least I had to do all I could to rescue the kids from it all somehow and that I could at least fix that, and try to fix myself later. I think I achieved the former.

So..........the track has to be "Fix you", as I can hardly get past hearing the first verse so I guess that qualifies for sad!

Day 3 of the 30 Day music challenge

Day 3  A song that makes me happy.

So very very difficult to decide on this one as there are many many songs that I like, but trying to think of one that makes me smile or feel happy for the sake of it, rather than it be connected to an event or person is difficult.

"Perfect" by Fairground Attraction almost got there, as did "One Day Like This" by Elbow, or "Wonderful World" or "We have all the time in the world" both by Louis Armstrong, "Perfect Day" with various artists for the BBC.
But the clear winner is just a feelgood, "glad to see you" type of track that is just about something good, and Callum and I smile when we hear it, so for that reason too, its ELO

Day 2 of 30 day music challenge

The second song I have to choose as part of the challenge is my least favourite song.
Now there would be several contenders, and the first that comes to mind are dross such as "The Birdy Song" or "Agadoo" but I don't really class that sort of rubbish as songs as they are novelties.
To be fair, I thought that I had to go for a proper song that I just dislike intensely whenever I hear it...........which seemed a hundred times a day when I was in Turkey in 2009.

The song is awful and the vocals grating, and the video is embarrassing, with truly awful dancing, sets, and clothes.
Shakira - She Wolf - Shite

30 Day music challenge

Day 1 My favourite song.

Like most people I would guess they would be hard pressed to state their outright number one song.
So, I can only go with my favourite song of the last couple of years, which would be in my top ten anyway.

It is a favourite for bitter-sweet reasons.
The sweet for when I first heard it, as I thought it was a beautifully crafted song, and it was in my range, so I could sing it in the car and so I went and bought the album on the strength of it straight away, and it became a great favourite. A modern classic of an album that I thoroughly recommend.

The bitter for later on when I was playing it in the car with Callum and Kizzy, it was a few months after their mother, my wife at the time, had left us all for a "different" life.

The lyrics are poignant and they were picked out by the kids as particularly relevant to what they said their mum had done to them, and to me, down to the "no sympathy" for her from them because of the "shouting out loud", and "we don't know where you're spending all of your days, knowing the love isn't here" as a relevance to what the three of us may have been thinking about her. So it became a soundtrack to that time for the three of us and Callum and Kizzy requested it, sometimes when they were with me alone or when we were all together, and it almost became a therapy to release sadness or anger at what they felt, and it was a way of saying something without talking as I knew what they meant when they wanted to hear it.

They both said in slightly different ways that the message to their mum was that she did indeed take something perfect, (them or us all), and painted it red, (ruined it).